Are you accomplishing what you set out at the beginning of 2010?
What, exercise, quit smoking, eat better, get up / go to bed earlier, raise the relationship level with that special someone, upload your sales?
If you answer "yes" to any of these questions, then you have to be in constant movement, preferably in the direction of your goals, well done!
Now, you know that many people, in fact most will never meet its goals, because he thinks it will take action when motivated, and that's a mistake. They are spending energy in anything!
Look, let's say you read a motivational book or listen to a "motivator." Just reading or lecture, and salt well motivated and excited to meet your goals comprometidísimo. (I make the comment I'm not saying do not read or do not attend seminars, for nothing! Your life can only be transformed with the movement and the movement is to grow through learning and experience. What I am saying is that if you depend on external resources only to motivate you, you have a problem.) Then, two or three days to finish reading or attending the conference, that "motivation" ... it brings sadness.
And now you feel worse. Is the rebound effect, like when you have flu and you put the nose drops, and you open the graves, so that after a while they even closed! Well, or simply go on living your life on a daily basis, knowing that it is possible to achieve more did you see the movie "Awakenings"? Remember her?
Perhaps now you wonder why this happens?
This is because the motivation to get reading a book, listen to a "motivational" or attend an event of personal growth is not based on your own results, but results in future you are trying to achieve.
As this is not a motivation based on facts, or in your personal results, a reasoning "above" that is easily eroded by the action of your fears, doubts, limiting beliefs, or criticism of those around you.
This would be the outline of the above process: Motivation> Action> Results
So live life in this scheme will give a class of results that you can say for yourself based on your personal experiences.
You've heard heard the phrase: "Shrimp that falls asleep is carried by the tide." You know because I was asleep the aforementioned shrimp? Because I did not motivaciónnn. Do not swim, had everything on hand, did not need to motivate, and fell asleep, I took the power, and from there to the fisherman's net and you probably already ate it in a rich cocktail ... I guess you do not want to end being eaten by someone else right?
So there are other ways of motivation?
Well, there are many, many might say.
One is the "Results-Based Motivation. This reasoning creates a virtuous circle, leads you to take action, and hence to be more motivated, and so on. Therefore it is very powerful and very durable. In other words, simple actions and simple shots in the direction of your goals higher and transcendent, which translate into effective results, and these results generate motivation, which will "attract" more action, enhancing your process of action and motivation .
Action> Results> Motivation
Now do this to get the motivation you so desire, because it makes you feel good and powerful, is that state of fullness of resources so sought:
1) Identify actions to take to realize your goals and objectives.
2) Take action
3) Observe the results and Gozal, regardless of size or impact on your life.
3) The motivation will come to you
4) Enjoy your statements full of resources!
If the actions you take do not give you the results you seek, check if the goal is right, if you have the inner resources they require, and if you do is right for you and those around you. If something is not "aligned" sets the strategy. If everything is in order, remember the 3 P's - Insight, Patience and Persistence. Move
and make your dreams come true!
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